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Welcome to My Closet: a Tour
See how I organized my exposed closet in my new loft!
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 135 min read
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My Recovery Journey: The Divorce and Trashing the Dress
The divorce in over and my recovery journey is coming to a close through this therapeutic exercise of strength and acceptance.
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 616 min read
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Choosing Myself: The Heartache of Divorce, the Hope of Healing, and Valentine’s Day Reflections
Valentine's Day looks different this year, post divorce, and here I am still choosing to choose myself.
heatherbeanoyler
Feb 1310 min read
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Heather's 2025 Valentine's Day Gift Guide
2025 Valnetine's Day Gift Guide for you love yourself with!
heatherbeanoyler
Jan 304 min read
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A Letter to the Me of 2024
A letter to the me of 2024: a work of gratitude and reflection to the version of me that made it through 2024 with dignity and grace.
heatherbeanoyler
Jan 96 min read
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Wellness and Mental Health During the Holidays
Keeping myself healthy and happy during the holiday season with these simple steps!
heatherbeanoyler
Dec 19, 20245 min read
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Survival Mode
How do you survive when life is dragging you down? Here are some helpful tools I have learned to get through--I call it "Survival Mode"
heatherbeanoyler
Nov 7, 20246 min read
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Going Home
Going home can mean different things for different people. Here's what it means to me.
heatherbeanoyler
Oct 17, 20246 min read
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Friends After Forty and Filling for Divorce
When you start a new relationship, it almost seems like you get a new friend group built in, but what about when it ends? You end up back in
heatherbeanoyler
Sep 12, 20247 min read
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Don't Let Anyone Dull Your Sparkle
Finding my sparkle after years of not knowing who I was.
heatherbeanoyler
Jul 25, 20246 min read
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My Recovery Journey: The Public's Response to My Story
The reaction I have gotten from sharing my story.
heatherbeanoyler
May 9, 20249 min read
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Dancing for My Life
How dance shaped my life from childhood to today.
heatherbeanoyler
Apr 11, 202416 min read
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My Recovery Journey: Taking My Life Back
After my abuser made his official Alford Plea at the Peoria County Courthouse, he made a social media post that stated that although he...
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 28, 202424 min read
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My Recovery Journey: Where It All Began
The beginning of my journey to where I am today.
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 21, 202417 min read
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My Recovery Journey: Forced into Hiding
When I was dropped off at the Orlando airport by my driver, it was so vacant and there were very few people in sight. As I made my way...
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 14, 202425 min read
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My Recovery Journey: The Refuge
My experience in a residential treatment facility in Florida in 2020.
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 7, 202418 min read
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My Recovery Journey: The Events That Led Me to Treatment
A note to you before you begin to read my story: Trigger warning! This article contains events of abuse and domestic violence. Do not...
heatherbeanoyler
Feb 29, 202413 min read
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To the Girl Who Wants to Throw a Party
Tips for the girl who wants to throw a fabulous party!
heatherbeanoyler
Feb 15, 20247 min read
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A Letter to the Woman Who Is Afraid to Live Alone
To the woman who is afraid to live alone, Going through a divorce is something that changes you. It brings up fears and doubt. As you...
heatherbeanoyler
Feb 9, 20246 min read
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Heather's Valentine's Day Gift Guide
Valentine’s Day is a "Hallmark Holiday" that you either love or hate, or maybe you don’t really care about it at all. I am one that is...
heatherbeanoyler
Feb 1, 20244 min read
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