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Friday in Paris: The Wrong Metro Stop & the Best Kind of Mistake
Paris, France May 22, 2026 7:00 p.m. It’s Friday afternoon heading into Memorial Day weekend back home, or Victory Day weekend here in France, and Paris officially feels like summer. A few days ago, I was layering sweaters underneath my trench coat and wondering if the sun even existed anymore. Today it’s 82 degrees, bright blue skies, crowded cafés, and that kind of heat that makes the city feel alive in a completely different way. And honestly? Your girl is sweating. Li
heatherbeanoyler
May 284 min read


The Freedom Era: Paris Diaries
Welcome to my Freedom Era: Paris Diaries
heatherbeanoyler
May 177 min read


To the Future Me of 2026 — Choosing Joy, Truth, and the Life I Actually Want
When I think about 2026, and if I could choose a theme for the year, it would be this: choosing joy, happiness, and hope—despite everything that has happened over the last few years leading up to today. For a long time, choosing joy felt complicated. It felt like I was minimizing what had happened to me. Like if I let myself feel happy, I was somehow erasing the pain, the trauma, the loss—or pretending it didn’t matter. As if joy required denial. It doesn’t. 2025 was a year o
heatherbeanoyler
Jan 67 min read


To the Me of 2025: The Year I Walked Away and Finally Woke Up
a raw, reflective letter to the woman I was in 2025-- the year everything unraveled and revealed the truth. This post explores loss, identity, financial abuse, public fallout, forgivness and the decision to walk away and start over. Its about choosing authenticity over access, peace over performance, and closing one chapter with intention before stepping into the next.
heatherbeanoyler
Dec 29, 20259 min read
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