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Welcome to My Closet: a Tour
See how I organized my exposed closet in my new loft!
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 135 min read
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My Recovery Journey: The Divorce and Trashing the Dress
The divorce in over and my recovery journey is coming to a close through this therapeutic exercise of strength and acceptance.
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 616 min read
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Choosing Myself: The Heartache of Divorce, the Hope of Healing, and Valentine’s Day Reflections
Valentine's Day looks different this year, post divorce, and here I am still choosing to choose myself.
heatherbeanoyler
Feb 1310 min read
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Heather's 2025 Valentine's Day Gift Guide
2025 Valnetine's Day Gift Guide for you love yourself with!
heatherbeanoyler
Jan 304 min read
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A Letter to the Me of 2024
A letter to the me of 2024: a work of gratitude and reflection to the version of me that made it through 2024 with dignity and grace.
heatherbeanoyler
Jan 96 min read
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Wellness and Mental Health During the Holidays
Keeping myself healthy and happy during the holiday season with these simple steps!
heatherbeanoyler
Dec 19, 20245 min read
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Heather's Holiday Gift Guide 2024
Heather's Holiday Gift Guide is here for 2024 and is full of picks for the special people on your list!
heatherbeanoyler
Dec 5, 20244 min read
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Heather's Spanx Favorites: Holiday Edition!
My favorites from the SPANX Holiday Gift Guide 2024 are some of the best picks this season! I love SPANX and becoming an affiliate for...
heatherbeanoyler
Nov 26, 20243 min read
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Turkey, Traditions and Timelines: My Mom’s Perfect Thanksgiving Playbook
This playbook helps you time out all the dishes and turkey cooking time to serve a Thanksgiving meal perfectly prepared.
heatherbeanoyler
Nov 21, 202410 min read
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Survival Mode
How do you survive when life is dragging you down? Here are some helpful tools I have learned to get through--I call it "Survival Mode"
heatherbeanoyler
Nov 7, 20246 min read
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Going Home
Going home can mean different things for different people. Here's what it means to me.
heatherbeanoyler
Oct 17, 20246 min read
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Friends After Forty and Filling for Divorce
When you start a new relationship, it almost seems like you get a new friend group built in, but what about when it ends? You end up back in
heatherbeanoyler
Sep 12, 20247 min read
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Don't Let Anyone Dull Your Sparkle
Finding my sparkle after years of not knowing who I was.
heatherbeanoyler
Jul 25, 20246 min read
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Keep It Pop-Up, Peoria!: A Review of Pop Up Chicken Shop in Downtown Peoria, IL
A quick and fun review of Pop Up Chicken Shop in Downtown Peoria
heatherbeanoyler
Jun 27, 20244 min read
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Domestic Violence in Local Headlines
News of domestic violence is always hard to hear, and this time is no different. Here are some things I am trying to do to help.
heatherbeanoyler
Jun 6, 20245 min read
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For The Love of Cooking
My journey with food has been storied, but I love sharing my experience with all of you!
heatherbeanoyler
May 23, 202414 min read
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My Recovery Journey: The Public's Response to My Story
The reaction I have gotten from sharing my story.
heatherbeanoyler
May 9, 20249 min read
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How I Learned to Love My Body
My journey to loving the body I'm in and the road that led me here.
heatherbeanoyler
Apr 25, 202417 min read
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Dancing for My Life
How dance shaped my life from childhood to today.
heatherbeanoyler
Apr 11, 202416 min read
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My Recovery Journey: Taking My Life Back
After my abuser made his official Alford Plea at the Peoria County Courthouse, he made a social media post that stated that although he...
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 28, 202424 min read
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