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My Recovery Journey: I Won't Let The Past Be Erased
On August 20, 2025, my ex-husband will ask the court to expunge his domestic violence conviction. I am sharing my story as a survivor, advocate, and truth-teller to oppose the erasure of what happened to me—and to speak out for those who are still silenced. Justice shouldn't expire, and this is my stand.
heatherbeanoyler
Aug 126 min read


My Recovery Journey: The Divorce and Trashing the Dress
The divorce in over and my recovery journey is coming to a close through this therapeutic exercise of strength and acceptance.
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 616 min read


Domestic Violence in Local Headlines
News of domestic violence is always hard to hear, and this time is no different. Here are some things I am trying to do to help.
heatherbeanoyler
Jun 6, 20245 min read


My Recovery Journey: The Public's Response to My Story
The reaction I have gotten from sharing my story.
heatherbeanoyler
May 9, 20249 min read


My Recovery Journey: Taking My Life Back
After my abuser made his official Alford Plea at the Peoria County Courthouse, he made a social media post that stated that although he...
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 28, 202424 min read


My Recovery Journey: Where It All Began
The beginning of my journey to where I am today.
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 21, 202417 min read


My Recovery Journey: Forced into Hiding
When I was dropped off at the Orlando airport by my driver, it was so vacant and there were very few people in sight. As I made my way...
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 14, 202425 min read


My Recovery Journey: The Refuge
My experience in a residential treatment facility in Florida in 2020.
heatherbeanoyler
Mar 7, 202418 min read
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